Just happened to recently read the book 'Two States', a fun filled, humorous, comedy and all that which goes along with its cover. The book surely stands as its own testimony. It gives a great insight into how human equations follow a 'make-break in a fortnight' thing…
The author very very aptly gives the message, 'Push them till the last edge from which the only escape is to fall or get to the other side'.
Like a cliché, pls allow me to say that every decision in life needs the perfect time and moment, to be executed. I hear so many of my friends saying, "The girl's side hates me and they don't even know about us till now" or the girl saying, "Your parents hate me so much, even if they know about me from a long time" pls note the two abstractions here 'hate' & 'a timeline'. Hatred is a separate compartment altogether but fighting about the timelier when you are atleast 4 years away from the marriage? Is that justified? And yes, then the WWF series starts where each one of them tries to win the nonexistent medal!
Think about this for a while…
If you love the girl's or the boy's side with true heart or atleast have some drive to do so, then why should anything even come in between. Consider the case of author who wins over the girl's family precisely when it was meant to, though the girl not quite putting in equal efforts in comparison, the fact is, if you want to make it happen, 'you will' and that too, do it together rather than blaming each other's families and culture.
One should atleast start embracing the other side as people from Moon, if not from Mars.
End of this blog post...
Sorry to end this abruptly, but it is meant to be so…
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